Saturday, December 31, 2005

New Years Eve 2005

December 31 2005, what a year it's been. So much has happened that it's hard to believe that just 12 months ago, Mal and I were sitting on the edge of the Yarra River watching the fireworks mark the start of this year.

Of course, Mal is no longer in this world. That was the biggest shock of 2005, and a huge loss that I will feel deeply for a long time. Mal was a special person, and one without whom I wouldn't be where I am today.

But 2005 did have its positive side. Firstly, my first overseas holiday, which was the most prominant symbol of achievements in Amateur Radio. But the biggest surprise and joy was meeting another wonderful man, Mark. Knowing that many friends are yet to find their first special someone, I thought a second round of such luck was just asking for too much, but the mysterious ways of the Universe had other plans, and delivered a miracle to close off 2005.

This year, New Years Eve will be different. For the first time in 14 years, Mal won't be there, and instead of being somewhere around the suburbs, Mark and I will be in the bush camping, with the only fireworks being the stars and whatever meteors that happen to fall. As the clock ticks past midnight, I will remember a year that's changed my life totally. In what direction, I don't know yet. Guess that's what 2006 is for.

2005 was a year of triumph, tragedy and miracles. Let's hope for a quieter 2006 to build our new life together.

Happy New Year to all!

Sunday, December 25, 2005

Merry Christmas... and a Happy New Life!

It's 10:17PM on Christmas Day 2005. Mark and I are sitting here just playing around on our computers. We had a wonderful day, which really started on Christmas Eve with dinner with friends, which set the tone for the start of our first week together unimpeded by mundane concerns such as work.

Today, after a sleep in, we journeyed to my sister's place, where I introduced Mark to her and her husband, as well as my parents. This went extremely well and a good time was had by all. Afterwards, we called in on some friends of mine who were having their own Christmas party. Again, Mark and the news of our relationship was well received.

Happy (insert favourite religious holiday here) Mark! :-)

As for the rest of our week off together, we haven't made any plans. Just going to meander along and let it happen. It's just wonderful being together, whatever we're doing! :-)